Play a video and have dinner directly; Do not perform, refuse to incite emotions, and cancel formal segments; Organizing garden parties, playing scratch off music... These minimalist weddings without wedding receptions, motorcades, or emcees are gradually becoming popular among young people. This new form of wedding, which says' no 'to formalities, breaks the fixed process of traditional weddings. It is not only a reflection of young people's pursuit of personalization, but also the result of multiple factors such as changes in consumer attitudes and the promotion of the work of changing customs and traditions. In some places, there are phenomena such as sky high dowries, extravagance and waste, vulgar wedding celebrations, and comparison with gifts, which make weddings more flavorful. Nowadays, new forms such as personalized customized weddings and creative game weddings are constantly emerging, replacing grand events with "small and beautiful" ones. This not only reduces the economic pressure on families, but also conforms to the trend of simplified wedding ceremonies, allowing wedding ceremonies to return to the original intention of enjoying happiness and receiving blessings. For elders, being more tolerant and understanding, respecting young people's independent choice of wedding form, is the best blessing for them to embark on a new stage of life. Relevant departments may adopt various forms to promote civilized wedding customs, gather consensus and joint efforts to change customs, promote traditional wedding customs to keep up with the times, and make fresh and civilized wedding forms a new trend. We look forward to more and more weddings becoming more authentic and returning to simplicity, reducing the burden of marriage and adding to social civilization. (New Society)