Recently, the School of Physics at Nanjing University refused to admit the first place graduate student in the preliminary exam, which has attracted widespread attention. It is reported that in the early stage of the postgraduate entrance examination interview, multiple netizens reported the student to Nanjing University for suspected cat abuse and inappropriate remarks. The school did not directly explain the reason for not passing the interview, but responded politely. The information transmitted online was partially true, and behaviors such as "abusing cats" may have an impact on the results. From "one exam determines the overall situation" to a combination of initial and second exams, from adjusting the score ratio reasonably, to incorporating ideological and moral assessments into the content of the second round... The continuous improvement of China's graduate recruitment system reflects the continuous improvement of standards for talent cultivation and selection, and also reflects the educational orientation of universities to "cultivate people with morality" and to cultivate new talents with both morality and talent in the era. The student and their family have received police warning and written a letter of repentance regarding their cat abuse behavior, and their name has also appeared on the list of candidates for the second round of interviews at Lanzhou University. But many netizens do not intend to "forgive him". In the official Weibo comment section of Lanzhou University, many comments hope that the school will carefully consider or refuse admission. From a procedural perspective, being first in the preliminary examination does not necessarily mean being "stable". Whether the school combines the enrollment plan, provides candidates with more opportunities, or comprehensively considers academic ability and moral character, refusing admission due to failing a single item is considered reasonable and compliant. On the evening of April 8th, the list of candidates for admission to Lanzhou University was announced, but the cat abuse candidates were not among them, which is regrettable. Usually, graduate exams take four courses, including general education and professional courses. However, the compulsory course of respecting life and treating others well should not only be taken in the postgraduate entrance examination, but also accompany our growth and even life. This course often has no grades and is more like a pass/fail system. Life is a long-term practice, but choices are often only made in the blink of an eye. Some hesitate and get lost, while others remain clear and firm. Yang Sheng, a 2023 graduate student at Wuhan University of Technology, saved lives at a subway station and delayed his exam. Netizens praised him for scoring full marks in another exam room; Liu Yang, a pediatrician at the First People's Hospital of Bengbu, Anhui, provided first aid to a fainting candidate during the postgraduate entrance examination. However, he missed out on his desired school. She said, "If it happened again, I would still choose to save people." Some people called for exceptional admission of candidates to save people. In fact, several "little heroes" in the Wenchuan and Yushu earthquakes have had precedents of being admitted to universities such as Tsinghua and Peking University through exceptional admission. More voices point out that it is the joint responsibility of schools, families, and society to pay attention to arranging diverse forms of life education, guide students to establish a correct view of life, improve their ability to protect themselves and help others. The way to university is to be clear and virtuous, to be friendly to the people, and to stop at the utmost good. While urging candidates to reflect, many universities should also accelerate the process of making up for this lesson and respond more effectively to the concerns of netizens and the expectations of society. (Lai Xin She)