Perceiving the "poetic" behind social networks

2024-01-22

New Year's Day has passed for some time, but when it comes to this conversation, my neighbor Lao Zhang still feels a bit embarrassed. The cause was actually a blessing WeChat message from Sun Chengchen. The content reads: "Wishing Grandpa a happy new year! Your career is going smoothly, rising step by step, and your wealth is rolling." Old Zhang said: "I have been retired for more than 20 years, where did I get the" career go smoothly "and" rising step by step "?"? Lao Zhang called his son. My son felt very embarrassed and said, "I told Chenchen in advance that I should greet you well. However, this child casually copied a blessing message online and sent it over..." This message reflects a noteworthy phenomenon in the Internet era: although communication is more convenient, there seems to be an extra layer of barrier between people - greetings between family and friends are no longer as heartfelt as before; In a group, everyone's "emoji relay" is as enthusiastic as fire, but they rarely interact with each other when they meet on weekdays; There are also people who speak fluently online, carrying one burden after another, but when they return to the real world, they become "socially fearful"... People communicate more frequently online, but their true emotional communication is actually less. Some people say that the pace of life is so fast now, talking about emotions? Who has that time! Indeed, many users only consider social media platforms as necessary tools for work, study, and daily life, to maintain and expand their network. However, the emotional communication function undertaken by social networks should also be given more attention. A statistical report shows that global users spend up to 2 hours and 26 minutes a day on social networks. Isn't it a pity to use such a long time only for "instrumental" communication? It is generally believed that the widespread use of the term "communication" originated from the ancient Chinese saying "looking at the exchange between the Yellow River and the Luo River", which means that the Yellow River and the Luo River converge at one point. The intersection of two rivers naturally blends together like "you have me, I have you". Isn't communication between people the same? If there is a lack of spiritual and emotional integration, the significance of social interaction will be greatly diminished. Contact itself carries the meaning of emotional communication. A few years ago, a song was quite popular, and the lyrics read: "In the past, the sun became slow, cars, horses, and emails were all slow. Everyone was sincere and sincere, saying one sentence, it was a sentence..." In the era of "family letters are worth ten thousand gold", communication between family and friends was very difficult, and big families also cherished it. Every word and sentence in communication had to be carefully considered. I remember seeing a letter written by a university professor to his mother during a young study tour. The graceful handwriting, delicate emotions, and sincere expression touched people's hearts. With the advent of the Internet era, QQ has become one of people's main communication tools. Until now, many people are still sharing heartwarming stories about using QQ online. Someone said excitedly when their grandfather first learned video chatting, "This thing is really good, just like we talk at home."; Some people revisit the struggles of mutual encouragement and overcoming difficulties among their classmates; Some people also recall the lively scene of stealing vegetables together, regardless of age. At that time, the comments among netizens were so simple that most people would leave a message in their friend's space: "Step on it, remember to step back", just like visiting neighbors. Now is the era of mobile internet, we have WeChat

Edit:GuoGuo    Responsible editor:FangZhiYou

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