How do parents view this special "opening ceremony" as a KPI for college romance
2023-09-15
At the beginning of the new semester, Xun Guang, a senior student at Central North University, received a special "opening ceremony" from his mother: if he can complete the "KPI" of dating, he will receive a monthly "bonus" of 500 yuan. In addition, his mother also set a monthly living cost target: 900 yuan of living cost at the beginning of the month as the "base salary", three times of clocking in in the morning, noon and evening every day to study in the library, 300 yuan in total at the end of a month, and 300 yuan of reward for "full attendance". XunGuang posted his chat records with his mother on his social account, which immediately sparked a heated discussion among netizens. Someone exclaimed, "When I was in school, I used to keep dating from my parents. Are parents so open-minded now?" "I envy you, dating can earn more money than checking in every day." Many netizens have also acted as "counselors" in the comment section, Suggestions and suggestions: "Auntie, I suggest setting another exit password to prevent your son from running away after checking in.", The idea of 'being single can also lead a good life' is not uncommon among young people. Compared to young people with a 'Buddhist' attitude, some parents are much more eager to find a partner. Unconsciously, falling in love and getting married seems to have become a KPI set by parents for their children, and the time period has also been pushed back to college. In order to prevent their children from falling into a blind date cycle, parents have added a college dating KPI. At the age of 21, XunGuang is still a "mother only" (someone who has never been in a relationship since her mother came out). Although she is not in a hurry, her mother can't sit still. She usually works in personnel related fields, but she didn't expect to use me. "This is the first time that XunGuang has seen her mother" bring the practices from work to home ", and seeing that there is only one last year of college life left, but the child shows no signs of making a girlfriend. In addition, the pressure of graduation and postgraduate entrance examination comes one after another, which is why her mother came up with such a novel solution. At first, she suggested setting KPIs for me, which shocked me, but after all, I am currently preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. Regular clock ins every day can indeed help me self-discipline. "Xun Guang sighed," It is possible to persist in clock ins throughout the day, and starting a beautiful relationship is not something that can be achieved through hard work. In the mother's view, the purpose of setting KPIs is also to motivate her son to work hard to prepare for the exam, but it would be better if she could take this opportunity to urge her son to talk about a girlfriend. "I know he hates blind dates and doesn't want him to do things he doesn't like in the future. I don't want him to enter the blind date cycle, so I came up with this method. I hope he can take a step forward during his school years and find someone he likes. Xun Guang recalled that his mother's favorite example was one of his uncles, who was almost 40 years old and still single, and the whole family was worried about it. She always told me that if she doesn't fall in love now, she may be like her uncle in the future. Zhou Zhou is on blind dates, and she may not be able to find her ideal partner. In the end, she can only find someone to live with
Edit:GuoGuo Responsible editor:FangZhiYou
Source:china.com.cn
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