● Only when cadres take the initiative to take the lead and set an example, can they further enhance mutual trust and love between officers and soldiers with practical actions, and create a united, friendly, harmonious and pure internal relationship. "I move forward, you follow me, I stop, you push me, and I retreat, you shoot me!" This impassioned and moving battle oath was the cry of Fan Zixia, a famous anti Japanese general, who was later recognized by Liu Bocheng Deng Xiaoping called it "a model Bolsheviks, the most loyal soldier to the cause of the liberation of the Chinese nation". From "Comrades, follow me" during the revolutionary war era to "Leader of the Heroic Regiment of Defending the Country and Defending the Border," Qi Fabao's regiment executing tasks with "cadres standing in front and soldiers standing behind", in a simple sentence, it is the winning strategy of the team that cannot be defeated, dispersed, or defeated. Despite the changing times, the fine tradition of leading by example and leading by example among the backbone of our military cadres has never changed. President Xi Jinping pointed out that setting an example and leading by example is an effective leadership and work method. Setting an example is the most powerful mobilization and effective guidance. The majority of young officers and soldiers in the new era are born in the 95s and 2000s. Due to factors such as the characteristics of the times and the growth environment, they have a strong sense of democracy and place great importance on "equality between officers and soldiers". If the exemplary role of the military leaders is not played well, it is easy for them to question "why do we do what cadres do not do. Sometimes, precisely because of such reasons, some military leaders lose their credibility, lose confidence in carrying out work, and the work situation becomes passive. Therefore, only by taking the initiative and setting an example can cadres and cadres further enhance mutual trust and love between officers and soldiers through practical actions, and create a united, friendly, harmonious, and pure internal relationship. Dare to say 'look at me' in normal times and shout 'follow me' at critical moments. In the history of our party and army, in various historical periods of revolution, construction, and reform, it is precisely because countless cadres and cadres have charged ahead, actively fought on the front line of urgent, difficult, and heavy tasks, and at the forefront of major struggles that they can generate strong driving force and enormous inspiration. On the new journey of building a strong military, we need to inherit and carry forward this good tradition even more. However, it cannot be denied that some of the military leaders in reality are unwilling to shout, unable to shout, unable to make a sound, "look at me", "follow me", and lack the courage and courage to "I go first"; Some people may not know where to start when encountering problems, may not be able to grasp the rules and directions, and may lack the ability to lead officers and soldiers with 'follow me'; There are still bureaucratic styles that have not been completely eradicated, believing that taking the initiative to take the lead is a "loss of face" and "loss of identity"... If the military leaders cannot face these problems squarely, the good relationship between officers and soldiers will not be consolidated and strengthened, and the obstacles that hinder the generation of combat effectiveness will not be cleared. "It's better to ask people above and push people behind than to lead people in front." In the arduous war of resistance against Japan, Peng Dehuai was sometimes only a few kilometers away from the enemy when he commanded the battle, and the front positions were clearly visible through binoculars. During a pre war mobilization, Wang Zhen put out a coffin and swore with his fists: "I lead Mae Nomeri, die before I die, and put it in this coffin after I die." Xu Shiyou said: "If there are officials who lead the charge, there are soldiers who are not afraid of death