There is a kind of kinship called caring for the descendants of heroes and martyrs ■ Li Yupeng Li Xiangen, the company commander, led his team to patrol when he encountered a flash flood and made a heroic sacrifice to rescue his comrades in arms. The next year, his wife came to the post with her two-year-old son and planted a camphor pine, named "acacia tree". On January 26th, 2014, President Xi Jinping heard this story at the sanjiaoshan post. He was very moved and asked to take good care of the relatives and children of the martyrs. "Every time I think about the motherland, I recall the hero's iron armor." More than 20 million people! This is the number of martyrs in our country so far. "There are not enough weapons, and take our blood / no warm comfort, and take our hot blood / hot blood, is our only remaining / free land, which should be irrigated with blood..." it was yesterday's fall of these heroes that made the Republic stand today. However, fearless heroes are also "afraid". A martyr wrote in his diary before the battle: "not afraid of the enemy, not afraid of death, just afraid that the old man will have a bad life after I leave, and the children will be bullied..." Heroes travel far, and families; Heroes sleep forever, and there are descendants. Only by taking good care of the relatives and children of the martyrs will they be smiling and inspire more heroes to rush forward. Remember the look in the eyes of his son holding his father's portrait at the burial ceremony of martyr Yang Shupeng's ashes? Remember the scene of martyr Zhang Chao's daughter crying "I want to find dad" at the farewell ceremony of his body? Remember Chen Hongjun martyr's son, a pair of small hands holding a synthetic "family photo"? We must keep in mind the contributions of heroes and martyrs in those years; We should pay more attention to the growth of heroic children. A country's attitude towards the relatives and children of heroes indicates the country's respect for heroes. Today, how do we treat the relatives and children of heroes and martyrs? Heroes are looking at us, and the people are also looking at us. The heroes and the people saw that after Comrade Luo Yang died on duty, President Xi asked the relevant parties to take good care of Comrade Luo Yang's family. When giving important instructions to Comrade Liao Junbo's advanced deeds, President Xi stressed: "in particular, we should take good care of their elderly and minor children. This work should be undertaken and implemented by special personnel." Earnest and sincere, penetrating the back of the paper. Heroes and the people have seen - the regulations on the commendation of martyrs, the Interim Measures for the preferential treatment of the families of revolutionary martyrs and revolutionary soldiers for the diagnosis and treatment of diseases, the opening of the "children's class of heroes" in the army, and the extra points for the children of heroes and martyrs in the college entrance examination... Heroes and martyrs have no self, and the organization is affectionate. Heroes and the people have seen that a city launched the activity of "caring for the descendants of revolutionary heroes" last year, and the city has invested more than 5 million yuan at all levels; After martyr Chen Weimin made a glorious sacrifice in the border self-defense war, more than 100 of his former comrades in arms worked together to send their children to university; The students of the volunteer service team of Capital Normal University paired up with the relatives of the martyrs to tutor the children of the Martyrs... Drops of rain and dew moisten their hearts. For the relatives and children of heroes and martyrs, the masses and officers and soldiers are concerned about their lives and growth. There is a kind of kinship called caring for the descendants of heroes and martyrs; There is a kind of love that will be inherited because of this kind of love. Caring for the relatives and children of heroes and martyrs is not a one-way payment, nor is it just a moral one. The process itself is also a process of understanding the deeds of heroes and martyrs, as well as a process of receiving revolutionary traditional education. Behind this action, it is more about the deep memory and inner respect of heroes, and the full recognition and silent promotion of the heroic spirit. "Time knows the meaning of love best." Caring for the relatives and children of heroes and martyrs requires warmth and long-term love. For the children of heroes and martyrs, especially the young children of heroes and martyrs, we need not only help in life, but also spiritual care, and "a beam of light shines into our hearts and lights up our hearts". However, this is not easy. It can't be solved with a few toys, clothes and calls. It needs to invest time and energy, and it needs to be achieved with continuous attention and help. Suhomlinsky, a famous educator, said, "the formation of people's spiritual world and their reappearance in the next generation make their sons and daughters more perfect incarnations than themselves. This is a noble creation of citizens." Pear blossoms year after year, and the dead heroes will never come back, but "the lives of heroes bloom". Today, facing the question of how to learn the soul of heroes, let's answer it earlier, faster and more by helping heroes and martyrs complete "a noble creation of citizens"! A 13 year "family plan" ■ Yu Zhengxing, special correspondent of the Liberation Army Daily in Yubo, Baijian Plateau For Hu Bowen, a second grade student in Yangzhou Meiling middle school, the word "Dad" is plural. At the weekend, Hu Bowen dialed the video phone of "Dad" again. "Dad, thank you for the '61' gift!" At the end of the video, Hu Bowen held the car model in both hands and happily told the recent interesting stories. "Bowen, are you still used to online classes? Come to see us during the summer vacation." At the other end of the video, Hu Bowen's "dads" are all dressed in straight military uniforms, looking around 20 years old. This group of young "soldier fathers" are from the Cadet team of the army military transportation academy. Some of them have been in the army for less than 4 years, but their story with Hu Bowen has lasted for 13 years. Hu Bowen's training ground when he was studying at his father's military academy. Concealment This "secret" was once unknown to only one person I don't know how many times, young Hu Bowen wondered in his heart: why do you have so many "soldier fathers"? Dad, where is Hu Yongfei? Later, Hu Bowen, who grew up, vaguely realized that his father had died. This is a "secret" that everyone, including his mother, kept to him. He thanked the "soldier father" from the bottom of his heart, and sincerely understood and appreciated their white lies. That year, Hu Yongfei graduated with excellent grades from Bengbu automobile management college and came to the automobile team of a border regiment of Shannan military sub district in Tibet, determined to "make the value of soldiers shine on the Qinghai Tibet Plateau". With the spirit of down-to-earth work and dedication, Hu Yongfei was recognized by his leaders and comrades in arms and became the captain of the automobile team. At the same time, he also harvested sweet love and tied the knot with "Sichuan sister" Zhou Zhongyan. Later, Hu Bowen was born. Watching his son grow up day by day, Hu Yongfei felt that he was the happiest person in the world. "When we chatted at that time, Yongfei often talked about children with us. I think, like me, he will often miss his family far away." So far, Hu Yongfei's comrades in arms still cannot help but feel sad when they think of him. As they are also running on the Qinghai Tibet Plateau, they may be more able to experience the hardships and difficulties. Living on the plateau, I miss my family. Hu Yongfei tried his best to build a warm home with love. He even discussed with his wife where his son would go to kindergarten and what university he would enter in the future. However, the accident of life is like the sky on the plateau. Living on the plateau, you never know when the blue sky above your head will change. Hu Yongfei took a photo while studying at the military academy. Flying snow in summer is also common on the plateau. When the hail crackled on the face, everyone would be in awe. Not to mention the towering ice peaks and snow ridges, the dangerous road sections full of snow pits, glaciers and dark valleys, as well as avalanches and landslides that may be encountered at any time For the plateau Autobots, stepping on the clouds and fighting at the border, accidents are like obstacles that suddenly appear in the game of passing through the border. Once on the road, they must turn on the mode of passing through the border and be 100% energetic. It was a sunny day on June 24th, 2009. Hu Yongfei led the team to the familiar plateau highway. In front of a cliff, the motorcade suddenly encountered a landslide, and Hu Yongfei calmly commanded his comrades in arms to pass quickly. Suddenly, a boulder rolled down the mountain and hit the vehicle driven by Hu Yongfei. At the critical moment, he pushed away his comrades in arms and stayed on the snowy plateau forever. The news came as a bolt from the blue. In a trance, Zhou Zhongyan accepted the fact that her husband had died. At that time, his son Hu Bowen was just 1 year old and 4 months old. From then on, Zhou Zhongyan propped up this collapsing home with her weak shoulders. Hearing the bad news, Hu Yongfei's alma mater, Bengbu Institute of automotive management, organized visits to the martyrs' families, and also discussed and studied the growth of Hu Bowen: how to make the martyrs' children have a happy childhood like other children? To this end, Zhang Lei, then a cadre of the student team, put forward the "soldier father plan". According to Zhang Lei, the "soldier father plan" is to fulfill his father's obligations for his comrades in arms without telling xiaobowen, and gather all kinds of solutions proposed by everyone to solve the problems encountered in the growth of xiaobowen. The executor of the plan is the student team when Hu Yongfei was studying. Since then, Hu Yongfei's sacrifice has become a "secret" that only one person does not know. "We also know that we can't replace the real father role, but if we can help the hero's children grow up healthily and happily through the 'soldier father plan', our efforts will not be in vain." Zhang Lei said. Unseal "When I grow up, I will go to the place where my father fought." Hu Bowen cherishes a special address in his heart - No. 1, Qingnian Road, Cuona County, Shannan City, Tibet Autonomous Region. Before the age of 10, Hu Bowen could always receive gifts from this address. His mother told him, "this was sent to you by my father with his comrades in arms. He is on a special mission in Tibet, which is far away. When you grow up, my mother will take you to see my father by plane." Since the beginning of the "soldier father plan", Zhang Lei often called Zhou Zhongyan after work to ask about the current situation of mother and son and the difficulties they encountered in life, and coordinate the relationship to solve them. Usually, they irregularly send Zhou Zhongyan's family necessities such as grain, oil, clothing, and early childhood education supplies and toys to Hu Bowen; During the Mid Autumn Festival, Spring Festival and other festivals, Zhang Lei will send holiday greetings by SMS; On Tomb Sweeping Day and martyr memorial day, they always go to the tomb of "martyr Hu Yongfei" in the martyr cemetery in Gaoyou City, Jiangsu Province, and present a handful of white roses Slowly, Hu Bowen grew up. Seeing that all the friends around him had fathers, Hu Bowen kept asking his mother, "where has dad gone?" On a children's day on June 1st, in order to appease the children, Zhang Lei mobilized the students in the student team to write a message and send it to Hu Bowen in a thick big envelope. Zhou Zhongyan told his son, "look, my father asked the cadets of the military academy to write this for you. I hope you can study hard and make progress every day." Like Zhou Zhongyan, Zhang Lei also knew in his heart that Hu Bowen should not be made to realize that "Dad is gone" too early, so he always tried to cooperate with Zhou Zhongyan. He entrusted his Tibetan comrades in arms to send toys and daily necessities to xiaobowen from time to time, sometimes a toy gun, sometimes a remote-controlled car, sometimes a pair of sneakers. Looking at the address of Tibet on the express box, the little guy read word by word. When he encountered unknown words, he asked his mother to teach him to read. "When I grow up, I can go to this address to find my father!" Hu Bowen said. Over the past 13 years, students have changed several times, but the "soldier father plan" has been inherited. Luo Xuetian, the new instructor of the student team, not only followed a series of previous practices, but also participated in and accompanied Hu Bowen's growth in a new way. Luo Xuetian let the students show their magic powers, give full play to their strengths, and