Recently, intimate photos of an actor's minor son and girlfriend were exposed on the Internet, which aroused heated discussion among netizens. Many parents pay more attention to the problem of puppy love. Yang Tao, a psychologist, suggests that as children grow up, their emotions will become richer and richer. In adolescence, it is normal for children to have a good impression of the opposite sex. During this period, it is very important for parents to do a good job of correct guidance. The effect of rushing to preach the truth is not good First of all, parents need to be clear that it is not a concept to have puppy love tendency and children have puppy love. It is normal for children in adolescence to have a hazy preference for heterosexual students who get along day and night. Many children tend to regard this favor as the so-called love. In this case, parents should not be in a hurry to deny their children, let alone tell their children a big truth, and severely warn their children that they are absolutely not allowed to fall in love. This will not have much effect. Parents might as well discuss this topic with their children in a more rational and open language. For example, parents can find a suitable time to tell their children that love is not a bad thing. Being liked by a person proves that you are excellent, while liking a person proves your maturity and ability to love. In this way, children can feel that they are respected, their feelings are accepted, and they can know more about their state. When children feel that their parents are not strongly opposed, they can relax their nerves and listen to their parents' suggestions. At this time, parents should emphasize the principles with their children. For example, students should put their studies in the first place. Some principles must be made clear that as students, they are not able to be responsible for some of their behaviors. Since they like each other, they should be responsible for each other and can't make some special behaviors. At the same time, parents should show their trust in their children and believe that their children will deal with the relationship between love and learning. This kind of trust will make the child grateful rather than resentful, but will promote the child to be more mature. Divert children's attention To correctly guide children's love problems, in addition to fully communicating with children, parents should also find their own reasons. Many children's puppy love has a certain relationship with monotonous life and no goal. Parents should reflect on whether their children's family life is full in addition to school life? Are children's interests met? In fact, enriching children's life helps children find the real meaning of life, which can also divert children's attention from puppy love. For example, learn more about children's interests. If children like playing football, parents can take their children to participate in more outdoor sports on weekends; If children like dancing and playing the piano, they can sign up for some interest classes for their children. It is also very important for them to master one more skill. Enriching children's after-school life can also make children more confident. In addition, parents should spend more time with their children. Even if they chat with their children every night, the relationship between parents and children can be closer after a long time. If parents and children have enough company, children will confide their true thoughts with their parents, rather than looking for understanding. (Xinhua News Agency)