Keep your baby away from these bad behaviors during the winter vacation
2022-01-27
During the winter vacation, how to control the "bear child"? How to pay attention to the mental health of "good children"? This has become the most concerned topic for parents. Recently, the juvenile court of Haidian District People's Court of Beijing released the picture book of typical cases of juvenile court - "prevention of bad behavior", which truly records the qualitative change process of minors from bad behavior in the initial stage to criminal behavior. The reporter found that improper tutoring is an important incentive for minors' bad behavior. The reporter combed several typical cases and provided thinking for parents to educate their children from the perspective of juvenile judges. Smoking and drinking -- alcohol makes you dizzy Strong parents are businessmen and have many friends. They will invite their friends to dinner during the new year's festival, during which they have to drink. Influenced by his parents, he is strong, lively and outgoing. He likes to make friends. He often asks his classmates to go out for parties on weekends, and sometimes drinks to cheer him up. Once, at a good friend's birthday party, Zhuang Zhuang drank a lot of wine. In order to vent his anger for his friend, Zhuang Zhuang had a fierce verbal dispute with Kobayashi. Zhuang Zhuang punched and kicked Kobayashi regardless of the pull of his classmates, resulting in Kobayashi's injury. It was identified as minor injury level I. After the incident, the strong parents made an apology to Kobayashi and compensated Kobayashi for economic losses totaling more than 100000 yuan. Kobayashi expressed understanding for the strong behavior. After the court hearing, Zhuang Zhuang assaulted others after drinking, causing more than minor injuries, and his behavior has constituted the crime of intentional injury. In view of the fact that Zhuang Zhuang was under the age of 18 when he committed the crime, he had the circumstances of voluntary surrender, had a good attitude of confession and repentance, and was able to actively compensate the losses of the victim and obtain the understanding of the victim. Final judgment: Zhuang Zhuang constituted the crime of intentional injury and was sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of seven months and suspended for one year. During the trial, Zhuang Zhuang told the judge that he regretted it and wanted to sincerely apologize to Kobayashi. Previously, he had always believed that drinking was nothing, and it was not illegal and criminal. Adults often drank too. Why couldn't he drink? But now think about it, drinking will lead to reduced self-control, easy to delay things, and may also bring irreparable consequences. The law on the prevention of juvenile delinquency lists "smoking and drinking" as the first bad behavior. Zhang Ying, judge of the juvenile court of Haidian court, introduced that the Zhuang in this case was deliberately hurting others' bodies through the strength of wine, which eventually made a big mistake. Zhang Ying warned the students not to mistakenly think that smoking and drinking are mature and handsome, and not to imitate others' contact with tobacco and alcohol because of curiosity; At the same time, we should strengthen learning and enhance the ability to distinguish right from wrong and self-control. Absenteeism and truancy -- Serial theft of left behind children Jianjian, a 15-year-old junior high school student, has parents working in other places. Jianjian lives with her grandparents. Her family is relatively poor. Jianjian, who doesn't like learning, often skipped classes and went to the Internet cafe in the county to play games. Because of lack of money, he also went to the canteen in the town to steal money. After the east window incident, Grandpa gave him a hard lesson. Afterwards, Jianjian angrily stole the money from his family and came to Beijing by train with a young man from the same village. At first, Jianjian helped people deliver takeout and express. Because it was hard, after less than a month, Jianjian resigned and worked as a waiter in a hot pot shop. On the second day, Jianjian began to retreat when a young man living with him said that the shopkeeper would deduct his salary. On the third night, Jianjian pried open the drawer of the cashier in the store and took more than 3000 yuan in cash and a Chinese cigarette. After dawn, Jianjian bought a ticket and fled back to his hometown. After hearing by the court, Jian Jian's criminal act after truancy constitutes larceny. Given that Jianjian was under the age of 18 when he committed the crime and had a good attitude of confession and repentance after the crime, he shall be given a lighter punishment according to law. The final judgment: Jian Jian committed theft and was sentenced to six months' imprisonment and a fine of 3000 yuan. During the trial, Jianjian told the judge that he regretted his original behavior. First, his behavior involves crime, which is a stain of life. Although he had also committed theft before, he was not punished that time. This theft occurred after he reached the age of 16. With luck, he thought he would not be investigated this time, but he knew that his behavior constituted a crime after he was caught back in Beijing. Second, he didn't get his diploma because of his low education and limited ability to find a job in the society. If it were not for skipping classes and not going to school, it would not fall into the current situation. "Absenteeism and truancy" is a kind of bad behavior of minors, and it is also students' disrespect and irresponsibility for their right to education. Judge Cao Xiaoying found in the trial practice that the illegal and criminal acts committed by some Delinquent Teenagers were carried out during the period of absenteeism and truancy and in the state of deregulation of schools and parents. Therefore, parents and schools should strengthen contact and communication. Once students are found to be truant, they must be stopped in time. In addition, as minors themselves, we should also clearly realize that education is the cornerstone of life growth. Adolescence is a golden period for learning. We must settle down and study hard. We must not be "sad for the boss" or even take the road of crime because of truancy. Running away from home -- Xueba's wrong impulse Jiajia is a student bully in school. She not only has excellent grades, but also has a good relationship with her classmates. Closer and closer to the college entrance examination, Jiajia came up with a crazy idea because her parents put too much pressure on her: at 11 pm, Jiajia slipped out of the house with a fruit knife. He entered the University nearest to his home in the dark and robbed a male classmate. Before she ran out of the school, Jiajia was stopped by several security guards. After being transferred to the public security organ, Jiajia was taken criminal coercive measures for robbery and detained in the detention center. After examination by the procuratorial organ, Jiajia was indicted on suspicion of robbery. After hearing by the court, Jiajia's criminal act after running away from home constitutes robbery. Since Jiajia was a minor under the age of 18 at the time of his crime, he shall be given a lighter or mitigated punishment according to law; At the same time, considering Jiajia's good attitude of confession and repentance after the crime, and obtaining the victim's understanding; The school issued a certificate of good performance for Jiajia. The court finally ruled that Jiajia committed robbery and was sentenced to three years' imprisonment, suspended for five years and fined 500 yuan. During the trial of the case, Jiajia told the judge that he was very angry when he heard his mother say "if you don't do well in the exam, there will be no one to support". He thought that his mother didn't know him at all. He read current affairs news, which would not affect his study, but also help improve his information and analysis ability. In his mother's opinion, he is wrong in everything except reading and studying. Since everything is wrong, let your mother see that "if you are wrong, you can live and don't want to be raised by others". During the robbery, he was very afraid and almost suffocated when he was pressed to the ground by the security guard. When the public security officer told him that robbery could be sentenced to ten years, his mind was blank. Judge Wang Lijuan said that through Jiajia's experience, I hope children understand that self-reliance also needs a learning process. "Running away from home" has been included in the bad behavior of minors. When this terrible idea comes into my mind, I can also use legal weapons to dispel evil thoughts. Under the principle of special and priority protection for minors in China, combined with the specific situation of Jiajia case, after being sentenced to probation, he returned to the campus, completed the college entrance examination and entered the University. (outlook new era)
Edit:Yuanqi Tang Responsible editor:Xiao Yu
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