Family education is the beginning of education, which is related to the healthy growth of minors and the happiness and tranquility of families. Recently, the Standing Committee of the National People's Congress voted to pass the family education promotion law, which will go into effect on January 1, 2022. Behind every "bear child", there are almost a pair of failed parents. In view of the profound impact of family education on children's growth, the promulgation of the family education promotion law has won the general support of the public. As a middle school teacher, I heard many colleagues around me give heartfelt cheers. "The foundation of the world lies in the country, and the foundation of the country lies at home." with the acceleration of China's social transformation, the traditional family structure and function have undergone profound changes, and the problems existing in family education have become increasingly prominent. The introduction of the family education promotion law defines the content of family education in a legal way, and makes it clear that family education is not only a "family affair" but also an important "state affair" at the legal level. Family education certainly needs the common attention of the whole society, but the cooperation between school and family is undoubtedly the key. For a long time, schools and teachers have attached great importance to home school communication and guided parents to do a good job in family education. Many teachers often tease themselves that they should not only educate students, but also educate parents. Although most parents actively cooperate with teachers and strive to work together at home and school to educate their children, a few parents make teachers very helpless: one is that they don't know how to educate their children, but they are unwilling to listen to (or fail to listen to) the teacher's suggestions, and blame the school and teachers for problems; The other is that the sense of responsibility of the subject of family education is not strong, or even simply let go. Whether you don't care, don't want to care, or both, the biggest victims are children in the end. In the face of these types of parents, no matter how much work teachers do, it is difficult to be effective. Although the law on the protection of minors and other laws and regulations also require guardians to undertake obligations and perform educational responsibilities, it is not special legislation after all and lacks specific rules. After the introduction of the family education promotion law, this situation is expected to change. The new law not only makes detailed provisions on family responsibility, state support and social coordination, but also gives guiding provisions on the contents and methods of family education, and establishes a set of working mechanism to promote it. For example, parents or other guardians who fail to perform or incorrectly perform their responsibilities for family education shall not only bear the corresponding legal consequences, but also admonish the guardians according to the circumstances and may order them to receive family education guidance if they find that minors have serious bad behaviors or commit criminal acts in the process of handling cases. Parents born without teaching and improper teaching should wake up! Problems with children are often the result of improper parental education. Misguided "bear children" are inseparable from "bear parents". Recently, the media disclosed that an evil gang with an average age of only 17 years old in Balinzuo banner, Inner Mongolia, is of great warning significance. The group's 19 defendants (8 of whom were minors at the time of the crime) committed 45 rape crimes in less than two years. The 23-year-old principal offender Wang Ling was accused of raping 29 women, including 28 minors, and 10 victims were young girls under the age of 14, which was heinous. According to media analysis, many of the gang come from divorced families, or their parents work abroad all year round. The lack of family education is the common feature of these misguided young people. "Little devil" is not born, nor does it grow up suddenly. If family education can make timely efforts and give correct guidance in the process of growth, the situation may be very different. Family education has risen from "family affairs" to "state affairs". Of course, it is inseparable from the joint efforts of the whole society. To this end, the family education promotion law stipulates the responsibilities of governments at all levels and relevant departments, encourages colleges and universities to set up family education courses and cultivate family education professionals, also requires that the family style construction be included in the unit culture construction, and supports employees to participate in family education activities. (outlook new era)