Do you have these limited emotions in December
2024-01-16
In an email to "Psychological Chat Bar," the author Zhang Tongsheng recounted the complex emotions at the end of the year, including the rapid passage of time, anticipation, the fulfillment of family relationships, and the possibility of being influenced at all times. Yang Jing, a national second level psychological counselor, suggests following the author's article to review and sort out one's year-end emotions, gradually stabilizing, calming, and expanding oneself, and giving birth to new and full strength within. Talking about the emotions of the twelfth lunar month seems like only when the Spring Festival approaches, do we realize how time flies so quickly. The small town only had one snowfall, experienced a period of low temperature, and soon passed 39. It's almost the beginning of spring, and I'm still skeptical. Is winter really going to pass this year? When I went out these past few days, the wind blowing in front of me no longer felt the cold of winter, and my face felt a bit soft and warm. The wind has softened, and the willows have also softened. Spring is really close at hand. Spring is the most complex season for people's emotions, and so is December. After entering the twelfth lunar month, as the Spring Festival approaches day by day, spring becomes even closer, and such emotions become more intense. In the emotions of December, I always feel an urgent expectation. Although everyone has different expectations, even for the same person at different ages, the enthusiasm for such expectations will not diminish much. During a year, there is a period full of anticipation, always a good thing. In the past year, whether we have had a good or unsatisfactory life, we will not have too much attachment to it. We will hope for a new beginning, and we prefer the day when we always exchange new peaches for old symbols. When we were young, in the twelfth lunar month, our wishes for the Chinese New Year were very simple. It was our anticipation for new clothes, food, and New Year's money. It was our anticipation for the kind of affection between relatives when they walked around each other. Perhaps it was also our anticipation for growing up one year in the new year and growing up quickly. Simple expectations grow with time, and time always passes quickly. Even in the new year, such expectations are no longer as simple or pure. Simple and pure time always makes us miss it immensely as we grow up. Many people are constantly doing addition, and after reaching a certain age, some people learn to subtract. This is also true for their New Year's expectations. And now, what are my expectations? Should we continue with addition or have we already started subtraction? It's really hard to say. I always think it's better to have simpler New Year's wishes and not expect too much. I remember Dong Qiao wrote a sentence in "Sanbao Cave Nostalgia": "Two words of peace, three feet of well, and a furnace of smoke for the wishes of all families." I like Dong Qiao's words and also the simple wishes he sends. In December, my expectations are also very simple, only peace, health, and simple happiness. In the emotions of the twelfth lunar month, there is also a gradual fullness, which is the feeling of completeness. This feeling was more tangible in the countryside at that time. As the New Year approaches, the countryside becomes lively. People who have been out for years begin to return home, as if only one morning or dusk, those familiar figures and local sounds suddenly appear in our eyes
Edit：Luo yu Responsible editor：Jia jia
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