The military instructor has cured my social phobia
2023-05-26
Upon seeing the approaching brigade commander, I greeted him loudly and made a standard military salute. The brigade commander greeted me with a smile on his face. In the eyes of others, this is a trivial matter, but for me, who is introverted and even has some mild "social phobia", it is undoubtedly a remarkable progress, indicating that I am no longer afraid of dealing with others. The matter still needs to start with that 'escape'. One evening after dinner, my comrade Xiao Wang and I went to pick up the express delivery. When we arrived near the intersection, we suddenly noticed the brigade commander coming from the other side. Seeing this scene, I quickly stopped and pulled Xiao Wang around to run, but I didn't want this scene to be seen by the passing instructor. What's wrong with you two? You run away when you see the leader, don't even understand the basic etiquette of saluting and saying hello? "Returning to the company, the instructor approached us to understand the situation. Looking at the instructor's sharp eyes, I hesitated and explained, "Hiding away, on the one hand, is afraid of the leader asking questions, and on the other hand, I don't know how to face the leader..." "You haven't made a mistake, what are you afraid of. I thought this matter would come to an end, but the next day, he gave an educational class on the issue of cultivating work style. Soldiers should pay attention to every word and action, and cannot be ignored just because things are small, especially etiquette and politeness. "The instructor's words were like a small hammer, hitting my heart. As the misunderstanding deepened, I dared not seek an explanation from the instructor. My comrade Xiao Wang saw my predicament and quietly approached the instructor to explain the whole situation. The instructor recalled my various behaviors such as being silent and hesitant to speak during group activities after I joined the team, and suddenly realized. The next afternoon, the instructor approached me alone, first apologizing for not paying attention to my situation in a timely manner, and then encouraging me to overcome this small problem and communicate with my leaders and comrades in a grand manner. Although I am very grateful, I still have some concerns in my heart, afraid that he will arrange various opportunities for me to "show off". As a result, the instructor not only did not assign me tasks, but instead used my break time to take me through psychological relaxation training. After several training sessions, I finally began to have confidence. Subsequently, he tailored a "challenge list" for me: from overcoming inner tension to shouting and relaxing loudly, from speaking at class meetings to giving speeches in front of the entire company, step by step, driving my growth. Once, the company organized a pre dinner speech, and the instructor gave me the opportunity to take the stage. Despite practicing many times, I still experienced forgetting my words. At that time, the scene of my comrades laughing at me flashed in my mind. But unexpectedly, everyone kept smiling, and the nearby instructor also cast encouraging glances. My nervousness was relieved and I finally made my "debut" in a company public speech. Although you spoke a bit stuttering, overall it was pretty good. "" I didn't realize you were quite good at speaking before. "... Afterwards, everyone expressed their affirmation of my speech, which greatly inspired me. Gradually, when the company carried out collective activities, I began to speak enthusiastically on the stage, and when I got along with other strange comrades in the company, I would also take the initiative to communicate... When I opened my arms to face the universal time, I found that the world was not as terrible as I thought, and since then it has become
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