After the era of "bringing children according to law" was opened, did anyone beat children in public to kneel? According to the Beijing daily client, at about 7:50 on January 12, a woman severely pinched the child's face on Beijing Metro Line 7 and made the child kneel in public, attracting the eyes of the same passengers. According to the passengers on the same bus, the woman also knocked off the child's hat. The child didn't even dare to wear the hat. Then she grabbed the mobile phone from the child's hand and raised her hand to hit the child again. Later, they went to another carriage and let the child kneel down for a quick stop. After the subway arrived, the woman put her hands in her pockets and left. The child quickly picked up her schoolbag and ran after her on her back Beating and scolding children in public has always been a taboo in education. From the child's submissive performance, this "treatment" may not be the first time. What mistake did a seven or eight year old child make to be humiliated in public? Do parents take into account their children's feelings? If this "humiliating education" is often applied, what kind of psychological trauma will it cause to children? At that time, someone in the carriage advised the woman, but the woman replied, "I said my child, I have to do whatever I want (him)." How can you be a parent if you are so rude? I have seen many times that parents scold their children indiscriminately, and even slap their children in the face in public when they pick up and send their children at the school gate. Children also have self-esteem. Trampling on children's self-esteem will cause two kinds of bad consequences: one is that they can't bear to rise up and resist, and the parent-child relationship is seriously opposed; The other is to learn to swallow it and accept it. It seems to be "calm". In fact, it makes children have inferiority complex, and even causes children's social anxiety and social avoidance behavior. Asking children to kneel down and admit their mistakes in public on the subway is not only a wrong way of education, but also suspected of violating the law. On January 1, 2022, the law of the people's Republic of China on the promotion of family education began to be officially implemented. Family education rose from "family affairs" to "state affairs", and parents opened the era of "bringing children according to law". Article 5 of the law clearly states that family education should respect the personal dignity of minors and protect their legitimate rights and interests. For parents who deprive their children of their dignity, it is necessary for the law to "show their teeth" and urge them to educate their children in accordance with scientific methods and ideas. Family education is the beginning of education. Parents are children's first teachers. They must not lead children by temperament. Children are not the private property of parents. In the era of "bringing children according to law", parents' love can be less utilitarian and pressure, more appreciation and affirmation, and make the home a warm harbor. (outlook new era)
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